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The Only Thanksgiving Guide You Need

By November 5, 2013November 12th, 2013814 Comments

Last year, we devoted a lot of blog space to Thanksgiving, by Sam Sifton. And since weโ€™re editors and writers, supposedly on the pulse of what the lastest, greatest, trendiest everything is, we should probably be featuring this yearโ€™s of-the-moment holiday cookbook. But hereโ€™s the thing: โ€œtrendyโ€ and โ€œof-the-momentโ€ are not words that should EVER EVER EVER be in the same sentence as โ€œThanksgiving,โ€ and we stand by our claim that Sam Siftonโ€™s timeless, authoritative, delicious guide to our countryโ€™s greatest holiday is The Only Thanksgiving Recipe Collection You Will Ever Need. (Outside of your grandmotherโ€™s recipe box, of course โ€” we donโ€™t want to get anyone in trouble here). As such, we launch our โ€œCountdown to Thanksgiving Seriesโ€ with a bountiful giveaway: In the next 48 hours, five readers are eligible to win a free copy of Siftonโ€™s Thanksgiving, and five more are eligible to have a free copy sent to whoever is cooking/hosting the feastโ€ฆ as a little pre-holiday pump-up and thank-you-in-advance. Thatโ€™s TEN COPIES WE ARE GIVING AWAY. All you have to do is leave a comment below (we wouldnโ€™t complain if this comment included a Thanksgiving tip) and tell me which one you are: #Host or #Guest.

Update: All winners have been notified. Congrats Josh, Betsy, Candice, Eva, Molly, Susan, Colleen F, L, Divya, Memegirl and to everyone else thanks for playing!

Related: Sam Siftonโ€™s 1o Laws of Thanksgiving.

814 Comments

  • Avatar Renee says:

    Weโ€™re guests, as we live in Illinois and the rest of my family is in Michigan, thus, we travel to them. Still, I love to cook and am always eager to help my mom in the kitchen!

  • Avatar Kristen says:

    Iโ€™m the host. We host just about every year, and I always make 2-3 gallons of turkey stock for gravy and whatnot the weekend before the big day. Thanksgiving always reminds me what a good team my husband and I are!

  • Avatar kathryn says:

    We grill our turkey after brining & spatchcocking it. Tastes delicious, the carcass makes a delicious soup, and it frees up the oven. #host

  • Avatar Jenna says:

    I am a guest this year and my tip is to always have a killer dessert.. whether youโ€™ve prepared it or have asked a guest to bring it!

  • Avatar Sherri says:

    Iโ€™m the guest but as my parents age my sisters and I take on a larger role in food preparation. My Mom starts setting the table on the Sunday before Thanksgiving and then preps food day by day until we all arrive for the big feast! We all bring wine because my Dad buys Two Buck Chuck (not that thereโ€™s anything wrong with that!) which gives us all a headache! My Mom (a retired art teacher) typically has a craft table for the kids. To round out the day, the garage has a large โ€œMomโ€ table filled with items she hopes my sisters and I will take with us as sheโ€™s perpetually โ€œdownsizingโ€. These are all traditions that carry from year to year-Two Buck Chuck included! Sherri

  • Avatar Liz says:

    Really enjoyed hosting a couple years ago. Would love to do so again, but have insecurities about inviting peopleโ€ฆ

    The thing Iโ€™m trying to teach myself is to find a pause in the preparation to really greet my guests, even if it canโ€™t be the very moment they walk in the door. Funny how we can get so caught up in preparing for a gathering that we forget to enjoy the people who are gathering.

  • Avatar Michelle says:

    #host for second time! My tip is to make sides ahead of time and have hubby fry the turkey, which frees up oven space and cooks in way less time, so you have less stress and more time to hang with friends & fam ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Avatar M says:

    # host. My tip is to fry the turkey! Frees up oven space, cooks in 45 minutes, always moist and delicious. (Yes, we live in the South.)

    And subtip: if you are frying the turkey, first put your turkey in the fryer. Pour water over the turkey until the turkey is just, but fully, submerged. Remove turkey. Mark where your water line is after the turkey has been removed. Now you know exactly how much oil you need. Pour out water, dry everything thoroughly (including turkey), and youโ€™re ready to go.

  • Audrey says:

    #guest Although my mom officially hosts, I get to help cook/bake/clean! Not so much a tip as a tradition: in our family, everyone has a favorite (be it a drink, dessert, side, etc) that we try to include for Thanksgiving. Itโ€™s a little way to let everyone know how much we love them. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday! I love spending time with my family and giving thanks for all of our blessings. Plus, thereโ€™s the food ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Heather H. says:

    Iโ€™m the host and have been for almost every one of my 24 years of married life. Some years Iโ€™ve hosted 20, but this year, weโ€™ll just have 4 gathered around the table. But the menu is always basically the sameโ€ฆitโ€™s just the amounts that change and sometimes a veggie or two.

  • Avatar Allison says:

    I am always a guest at my momโ€™s but hope to host some day. I ask my mom what she needs me to do or bring and try not to get in her wayโ€ฆ.

  • Avatar Brooksley W. says:

    I am the host, and this year will mark our first Thanksgiving without Mom. I am now the matriarch of the family and will try my best to create the loving, delicious and celebratory meal that Mom and I used to make together.

  • Avatar Catherine says:

    Hosting! I like the control I have but I wish we had a larger space. My tip is do as much as you can ahead of time! And if a guest canโ€™t cook, assign them something foolproof, like wine!

  • Avatar Randi says:

    Iโ€™m a guest this year, and all I have to bring is a blueberry pie. Not traditional, but itโ€™s the favorite dessert of one of the guests, whose birthday happens to fall on Thanksgiving this year.

  • Robin says:

    Guest this year. I would sincerely love to have someone cleaning up behind me as I cook. So I am taking it in hand to be the kind of guest I would like to have at my feast.

  • Avatar Rena says:

    guest at my in laws. bringing the pumpkin pie!

  • Avatar Ellen says:

    I am a guest as is tradition for our families Thanksgiving. I would love some ideas for a future attempt ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Avatar Natasha says:

    Iโ€™m a Friendsgiving hostess and a Thanksgiving guest.

    Most important rule: You can never have too much food or drink. Overprepare!

  • Avatar Caitlin G says:

    I am the #host for the second time this year.
    Cooking for a bunch of work friends (more like family) that also canโ€™t make it home for the holidays like myself.
    Weโ€™re all relatively new to the kitchen, so fingers crossed we can pull this off!

  • Avatar Elizabeth says:

    Guest. My tip is try to be the guest you would like to host. Offer ahead of time to make something specific, following the hostโ€™s recipe if she/he wants, and be flexible about everything from dishes to the time of the meal.

  • Avatar Ashleigh says:

    Hosting this year, in our new home, and planning to cook it all from scratch. Gosh, Iโ€™ve wanted to read this book sine I heard Sam on NPR last year! I have no tips to offer, but hoping to learn plenty from this book!

  • Avatar rachel says:

    Host this year, but we always do a Thanksgiving feast as a family as we love this meal.

  • Avatar Julie says:

    Iโ€™m a host AND a guest. I try to clean as I go and also spend the week before getting things ready. My checklist keeps me from feeling too overwhelmed on the day of (wine helps too!)

  • Avatar Allysa says:

    Guest this year! Braving the trip from NC to Pittsburgh!
    This book looks like a classic! A must for everyone one!

  • Avatar Lisa says:

    Guest at my Momโ€™s house, I bring the pie!

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