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Is the Breastpump Room the New Watercooler?

By March 8, 2012October 2nd, 201316 Comments

I donโ€™t even know where to begin on this one. Below is an actual exchange between two working moms (who I donโ€™t know! And who arenโ€™t related to me!) coordinating their visits to the designated office breast-pumping room. My editor forwarded it to me with the instruction that I was only allowed to post it here word-for-word if I promised not to reveal their real names or place of business. (All I can tell you is that their place of business had an advance copy of Dinner: A Love Story.) What do I like more? Their enviable working-mom camaraderie (my coworkers and I all had post-its on our doors like the one you see above, which I found in one of the girlsโ€™ baby books); or that one of their kids is โ€œso into cooking with herโ€ (jealous!); or the cereal-for-dinner bit (hilarious); or the fact that two moms found the book helpful enough to discuss while coordinating breast-pumping for their newborns???? Itโ€™s a tough one.

From: Lisa
Sent: Thursday, March 01, 2012 3:48 PM
To: Andrea
Subject: RE:

Shoot I %#ed up. Youre going in at 4 right? Will you let me know when youre all done? Thank you. . .

From: Andrea
Sent: Thursday, March 01, 2012 3:49 PM
To: Lisa

You want to go now? As long as Iโ€™m in by 4:15 im still good.

From: Lisa
Sent: Thursday, March 01, 2012 03:49 PM
To: Andrea

Bless you! Ill be faster than thatโ€”ill email you.

From: Lisa
Sent: Thursday, March 01, 2012 4:08 PM
To: Andrea

Go!

From: Andrea
Sent: Thursday, March 01, 2012 4:10 PM
To: Lisa

Boo ya! Thanks! P.S. I made the bolognese sauce and apricot mustard baked chicken from the DALS cookbook. AMAZING. Also my daughter and I had a great time making the galette. Sheโ€™s so into cooking with me now. She helps me every night. (Even last night when we had cereal with strawberries.)

If you are interested in receiving an advance readerโ€™s copy of the book, please Like DALS on facebook. Iโ€™ll be giving one away over there in the next few days.

16 Comments

  • Avatar Cecilia says:

    adore this. i cannot tell you how much more social i was as a breastpumping mom than i am now. i had to use a โ€œlocker roomโ€ which was actually a bathroom with a partition, then a bench, a mirror, a shelf, a shower stall and a few unused lockers. so many people would come back there to use the bathroom in privacy, make phone calls away from their desks, take pregnancy tests (really!).

    I cannot wait for your book to come out!

  • Avatar Meryl says:

    Youโ€™re right, that camaraderie is awesome. Canโ€™t wait for the book!

  • Avatar june says:

    The cereal with strawberries is definitely my favorite part especially because my dinners are looking m ore and more like that the busier we get. I really need your book!!!

  • Avatar Melissa@Julia's Bookbag says:

    Ha ha ha ha! This is so great!

    I want to try apricot chicken too!

  • Avatar JBS says:

    Love this! Just read it on my iphone while I was pumping. How perfect is that?! Just wish I had a copy of DALS to browse for inspiration for dinner tonightโ€ฆ

  • jenny jenny says:

    JBS: Wow, that IS perfect.

  • Avatar Carla says:

    Imagine my (pleasant) surprise when I pulled up DALS while I took my pumping break at work and saw this post. Love.

  • Avatar KS says:

    Love this! I am pumping now and got a good laugh not only at the pumping post, but because I shared some cheerios and blueberries with my 8 month old for dinner last night :0 My male coworker who sits in the office next to me is so attuned to my pumping schedule that he asked me this morning why I hadnโ€™t pumped yetโ€ฆ I guess men want in on the camraderie too???? Canโ€™t wait for the book!

  • Jenny Jenny says:

    All right โ€” this is getting kind of funny. How much do I love that DALS is the official website of the pumping post.

  • Avatar Zarah says:

    Love it! All working/pumping moms should definitely check out the book The Milk Memos. Itโ€™s basically a book-length version of the email exchange and note above. Really great.

  • Avatar Gretchen SB says:

    That exchange is so awesome, and so are all the comments! I, too, canโ€™t wait for the cookbook. When did you start cooking with your kids? Iโ€™ve tried to include my daughter a little bit (sheโ€™s 19 mo) but itโ€™s kind of a challenge at this point.

  • Avatar Angela says:

    While Iโ€™m sure a majority of your audience really digs your recent posts, Iโ€™m looking forward to when the focus shifts back to dinner/recipes.

  • Jenny Jenny says:

    Angela โ€“ But donโ€™t you see? Itโ€™s all dinner. I would argue that this post has more to do with dinner (how you strategize, where you get your ideas, etc) than Andyโ€™s 20-minute fettucine recipe posted four days ago. But I wonโ€™t. Iโ€™ll just say, donโ€™t worry, some more recipes coming down the pike as always. In the meantime, donโ€™t forget to refer to the index where you will find over 300 ideas for what to make tonight. https://promoavenue.info/recipes/%3C/p%3E

  • Avatar Angela says:

    Hi Jenny โ€“ I do see and agree that, technically, it is all dinner. However, I expect that each one of us relies on your blog for different reasons. We have older kids that are with us part time and have developed a strategy that works for us, so that element is less important for us personally. For us, your recipes, and the stories that support them, are like gold! Alas, Iโ€™ll shut up now. Have a great weekend.

  • Avatar Laurel says:

    This made me smile. Just a few years ago, when I was feeding my now 3-year-old, I felt very alone when nursing in public. Things certainly have changed and I am glad people are so supportive to young mothers! I enjoy your blog, thanks for posting!

  • Avatar Susan says:

    Oh I loved this. Brought back memories when I and my two colleagues all pumped with our offices next to each other. Weโ€™d schedule all of our conference calls for this time and just lock our doors. Everyone knew that if the door was closed they had better not knock.

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