So we may not be the only ones posting a Holiday Gift Guide this week, but weโd like to argue that DALS is probably going to be the only place you can stop by for a Family Dinner Holiday Gift Guide. Which is another way of saying that every gift, recipe, ritual, moment you see here is either family-related, dinner-related, family-dinner related, or, in keeping with the spirit of the blog,ย s#$t we like so much we just needed to tell you about it.ย (See #1 above,ย Pantone Ornaments from Seletti โ for all your design geek friends!) Be sure to read carefully โ thereโs something in it for you, too. โ Happy Holidays fromย The DALS Team!
2.ย Mauviel Copper Roasting Pan ($280, 11 3/4โณ x 8 5/8โณ) A Big Ticket Item for Big Ticket Home Cooks. Copper pots โ any size or shape or model โ are the gold standard for cookware. This was a present for Jenny last year; amazing what passes for romance in this house. But roasted chicken thighs have never looked so good. โ Andy
3.ย A Christmas Gift for You from Phil Spector. Letโs put aside the fact that heโs doing life in prison right now: Phil Spector could make music sound good.ย We pretty much put this album on repeat ย for the entire month of December. Even when weโre eating Latkes (see #6). You can hate Christmas records and love this. Darlene Love singing โChristmas (Baby, Please Come Home)โ? That alone is worth the price of admission. โ Andy
4. Bangles ($20 each) I bought some version of these for our babysitter โ but I canโt be too specific in case sheโs reading. There are a zillion options to choose from at J.Crew. โ Jenny
5. Little History of the World by E.H. Gombrich (ages: 8-adult). This book is my new obsession. My friends are so incredibly sick of hearing about it. But let me just show you the first paragraph, and you tell me: โAll stories begin with โOnce Upon a Time.โ And thatโs just what this story is all about: What happened once upon a time. Once you were so small that, even standing on tiptoes, you could barely reach your motherโs hand. Do you remember? Your own history might begin like this: โOnce upon a time, there was a small boyโ โ or a small girl โ โand that small boy was me.โ But before that you were a baby in a cradle. You wonโt remember that, but you know itโs true. Your father and mother were also small once, and so was your grandfather, and your grandmother, a much longer time ago, but you know that too. After all, we say: โthey are old.โ But they too had grandfathers and grandmothers and they too could say, โOnce upon a time.โ And so it goes on, further and further back. Behind every โOnce upon a timeโ there is always another. Have you ever tried standing between two mirrors? You should. You will see a great long line of shiny mirrors, each one smaller than the one before, stretching away into the distance, getting fainter and fainter, so that you never see the last. But even when you canโt see them anymore, the mirrors still go on. They are there, and you know it.โ OH MAN, I AM DYING. IT IS TOO GOOD.โ Andy
6. Potato Pancakes on the first night of Hannukah. Withย Marthaโs edible dreidls for dessert, bien sur. โ Jenny
7. Ruhlmanโs Twenty, ($23) byย Michael Ruhlman. Every time Iโm in a bookstore I am drawn to this one. The title refers to twenty culinary techniques which, if learned, will turn you in to a real cook โ the kind who understands why things happen the way they do and not the kind who follows recipes to the letter without thinking. Which explains his first technique: โThink.โ โJenny
8. Black Maple Hill Bourbon ($33). Jenny bought a bottle of this for me a couple birthdays ago and it one of those things that disabuses you of the idea that all [insert product here] are basically the same. Oh, the $12 stuff is just as good. No one can tell the difference between x and y. Itโs all marketing. That stuffโs a ripoff. Iโve said it, too. And I was wrong. Use sparingly, but use well. Also: what a label.ย โ Andy
9 & 10. Trader Joeโs Gift Tags As if we needed another reason to love TJoes? Templates for these gift tags (and also a garland which was a little too ambitious for us) are sketched right on their paper grocery bags. Remind me why all stores arenโt doing this? PS: While youโre at TJoes, pick up the (#10)ย Gingerbread House Kit for a holiday activity with the kids that doesnโt require a degree in Baking from ICE. And itโs from Germany, so it feels legit. โ Jenny
11. Concert T-Shirts ($20-$25) Jenny calls my new concert t-shirt obsession my โmid-life crisis.โ To which I say: better than a new girlfriend or a Porsche. Itโs true, though. I have been wearing these out lately, and I have no excuse. It just feels good to put one on; it feels less good, after putting one on, to walk by the full-length mirror in your bedroom and catch a glimpse of yourself and think, Man, whoโs the dorky old guy trying to be a kid again? (From left, Neil Young, Nick Lowe, and The Drive-By Truckers.) โ Andy
12. Beans from Joe the Art of Coffee ($11.95). There are way more days than I care to admit when my medium-sized cup of this stuff, purchased from Joeโs coffee cart in Grand Central Terminal, is the highlight of my work day. Seriously. โ Andy
13. The Christmas Cookie Ritual Simple, buttery cookies, made with grandma, and slathered in sugar and sprinkles. Whatโs not to love? I could never quite figure out, though, why the cookies themselves, as tasty as they are, are only half as tasty as the raw dough. That never seemed quite fair. The familyย recipe is here. โ Andy
14. Magnetic earrings. A pair of these should put off the ear pierce begging for at least a month or two. If you canโt find them at your local junky accessory store at the mall (which is where I found these), you can find some version of them at Claireโs, where they sell for $8 a pair. (Buy 2 get 1 free.)ย -Jenny
15. Marta Barware from CB2, ($1.50-$2.50 per glass) Every time I order these I think the same thing: Did they get the price wrong? Itโs crazy how inexpensive these glasses are given how pretty our chocolate milks andย cocktails look inside them. If youโre having a holiday party and not serving a special cocktail because you donโt want to cough up the dough for the extra (or proper) glassware โ hereโs your answer.ย โ Jenny
16.ย Make Dinner Not War bumper stickers ($4 for 1; $10 for 4 โ includes shipping) If you need me to give you a reason, please see previous 389 posts. โ Jenny
17. Bon Appetit Subscription ($20 for first gift subscription, second is FREE) Have you noticed how much a part of the conversation this magazine has become? I like to think this is because Andy and I show up six times a year writing our โProvidersโ column, but I think it might also have something to do with Marcus Nilsson-shot stories like these. โJenny
18.ย In2green Organic Cotton Blanket ($150)ย GIVEAWAY!!
Their classic cable knitย baby blanket has long been my go-to newborn gift, so you can imagine how delighted I was when they started making full-size, bonafide cotton throws for grown-ups. Hereโs the best part: Theyโve been nice enough to offer a free blanket to one lucky DALS reader.ย Rules:ย Comment below with the best gift youโve ever given or received. (As always, you must be a newsletter subscriber to be eligible, soย do that first if youโre not already signed up.) Winner will be chosen at random this Friday.ย โ Jenny
19. Pixar Short Films Collection. ($15) The downside of taking this DVD with us on road trips is that Jenny and I have to sit up front while the kids get to sit in the back, watching. We all have our personal favorites โ Phoebe (โOne Man Bandโ), Abby (โLiftedโ), Jenny (โBoundin'โ), and me (โBirds On a Wireโ) โ but really, theyโre all genius. Thereโs something nice about how short they are (a few minutes each); theyโre like little treats that we can dole out accordingly โ and use as bribes if necessary โ with minimal parental guilt. Why is it that letting the kids watch stuff from Pixar feels somehow healthy? โ Andy
20. MOMA Spherical Ice Tray Set ($13) Iโve never been to Japan, but I hear this is how they roll, ice cube-wise. If so, I like their style. Drop one of these bad boys in your Black Maple Hill bourbon โ or, really, the kidsโ pineapple juice โ and now weโre talking. One of those little silly things that makes life more fun.ย โ Andy
21. Billy Kirk Black Laptop Bag ($290) If youโre going to splurge on one thing this holiday, make it this. Andy bought it for me last year in khaki and tan and not a day goes by when I donโt get a compliment on it. -Jenny
22. Flying Pig Farms Gift Certificate Itโs been well-documented by now: we like pork. And weโve yet to find pork that tastes better than the stuff they sell at Flying Pig Farms, which we only discovered after friends sent us a gift certificate a few years ago. We ordered a roast and some chops and some bacon, and none of it was bad. Now itโs a go-to present for friends who know from pigs. It also takes our ragu to another level. โ Andy
23. Sambas for Kids ($30-$50)ย How good? These are Abbyโs and are only a few weeks old โ that should tell you how well-loved they are in our house. โJenny
Update: The winner of the in2green blanket is Katherine (#115). Thanks for playing everyone!
Potato latkes photo by Andrew McCaul; Pork shredding photo by Jennifer Causey
Exactly one year ago I was giving birth. In the pre-baby preparations my husband got neglected, so when Christmas arrived unexpectedly (hey, I was a new mum, OK?) I found myself without a gift. I stuck a ribbon to the babyโs nappy and handed her over to her dad for a cuddle. He said it was the best present ever, although I have to admit it was quite labour intensive for me ๐
The first year my oldest child could write she gave me a homemade card. A treasure that is priceless to me all these years later.
Best gift received is anything made by my kidsโฆalways makes me tear up! Best gift given might be the real kid-sized cooking utensils my 7-year-old is getting this yearโฆthe kid LOVES to cook!
Itโs a tie โ opera tickets from my husband (who had never been to an opera prior to that so it was a huge leap of faith for him) and cooking classes with a James Beard award winning chef from my parents. Both were extraordinary experiences.
It was a gift last year to spend a quiet Christmas at home with just our little family, shortly followed by the arrival of its newest member.
wow, the comments above are pretty amazing. And so generous of In2green. Iโd pick about 40 other people above before me, but thought this was a sweet idea so Iโll play. Itโs a small thing, but the best present I ever gave was last year on my Dadโs birthday. He and my stepmom were out of the country for the winter and I wouldnโt see him for his birthday, and birthdays are big in our family, so it felt strange to miss it. I made a โHappy Birthday Dadโ sign and took it around my work neighborhood in NYC. I asked strangers, co-workers, deli guys, my UPS guy, street vendors to hold it up while I took a photo. Then I put the photos together in a slideshow and emailed it to him. He said it made him feel so connected to home, he loved it. And I loved feeling like I was a part of his day from far away. Thanks for the great ideas. (And I love that Phil Spector album. For me, nothing says December like Darlene Love. )
Unexpected grace and compassion from my family when I made a very, very big mistake!
My husband having my favorite pair of earrings (not very expensive, and thus I wouldnโt have fixed them) repaired. They are one of maybe three pairs I wear.
I am obsessing about the Pantone ornamentsโฆI have called several the stores listed as a distributor but alias it has been in vain! Please, do you know somewhere on-line I can buy them?
Best gift I got was from my husband when he had a co-worker plan a 2-hour meeting with me on my birthday, but then had my co-worker hand me a bday card (from my husband) at the start of our โmeetingโ telling me I had a massage appointment in 15 minutes.
love the blanket!
the best present i ever got is a toss up โ either the trip to mexico my husband (then boyfriend) surprised me with (i was so excited because i had never been before!) and we had only been dating for like 3 months, i think he knew it was a good investment! haha โ or the crib he bought for the baby still in my belly. he splurged on one so beautiful that i never would have paid for but loved dearly everyday it was used by our two kids. thatโs it.
Best present ever was the sewing machine my husband bought me for our first Christmas together. I get to think of him every time I use it, and he gets to think of me as he sees the, um, โstateโ that I leave the kitchen table in middle of a project ๐ He might regret it, but I never have!
Best gift ever: nieces and nephews!
Material gift: A Nook ereader that I gave to myself. Love it.
The best gift I ever received was everyone in my family and my husbandโs family being together at our house last year for Christmas. No need to split the holiday among three sets of parents and best of all, our two kids (then 2 years and 2 weeks) woke up in their own beds on Christmas day!
My bright red Panasonic tape recorder when I was nine was the best gift ever. I secretly recorded my Mom and her best friendโs conversation not realizing an extra marital affair was the topic. It took a long time to wind the tape back into the cassette with a pencil after my Mom yanked it out of the recorder.
hmmm. best christmas gift iโve ever gotten? definitely our dog bing when i was a kid. heโs already 12 now!
My husband gave me a necklace after my son was born that I truly love wearing โ both b/c of the jewelry and the occasion.
best gift Iโve ever received-a poem from my husband.
Best given: a pair of Tiffanyโs earrings to my best friend on her 30th birthday. She was so surprised and so grateful. Giving does make you feel good!
When I was 8, my grandmother gave my cousin and me each a Chrissy doll.
We always say that was our best gift as children!
The best gift I ever got was my dog Sadie. Love that girl!
Having just spent a night out hearing other womenโs trials and tribulations of getting pregnant and difficult pregnancies, I realize the best gift Iโve ever had is the relatively easy process I went through to have my beautiful, healthy son. And I really love the Frye boots my MIL gifted me with one year. Sheโs the best.
Best gift iโve ever gotten was an ugly watch with changeable faces from my best guy friend. It included a gift reciept so I guiltily returned it. I was quite surprised when it turned out to be a fairly expensive (at the time, for two college students) watch, and it made me realize how much my friend cared about me and wanted to give me. Fortunately, my husband has gotten a lot better at gift buying over the years, but the memory of that very first gift is the most special.
I love giving books (especially to my kids), and I think my favorite gifts ever received are the ones from my Grandmamaโshe has a grab box each yearโwe take turns picking from it. I now have lots of special family dishes and things that I absolutely love. Every time I look at them they make me smile.