So we may not be the only ones posting a Holiday Gift Guide this week, but weโd like to argue that DALS is probably going to be the only place you can stop by for a Family Dinner Holiday Gift Guide. Which is another way of saying that every gift, recipe, ritual, moment you see here is either family-related, dinner-related, family-dinner related, or, in keeping with the spirit of the blog,ย s#$t we like so much we just needed to tell you about it.ย (See #1 above,ย Pantone Ornaments from Seletti โ for all your design geek friends!) Be sure to read carefully โ thereโs something in it for you, too. โ Happy Holidays fromย The DALS Team!
2.ย Mauviel Copper Roasting Pan ($280, 11 3/4โณ x 8 5/8โณ) A Big Ticket Item for Big Ticket Home Cooks. Copper pots โ any size or shape or model โ are the gold standard for cookware. This was a present for Jenny last year; amazing what passes for romance in this house. But roasted chicken thighs have never looked so good. โ Andy
3.ย A Christmas Gift for You from Phil Spector. Letโs put aside the fact that heโs doing life in prison right now: Phil Spector could make music sound good.ย We pretty much put this album on repeat ย for the entire month of December. Even when weโre eating Latkes (see #6). You can hate Christmas records and love this. Darlene Love singing โChristmas (Baby, Please Come Home)โ? That alone is worth the price of admission. โ Andy
4. Bangles ($20 each) I bought some version of these for our babysitter โ but I canโt be too specific in case sheโs reading. There are a zillion options to choose from at J.Crew. โ Jenny
5. Little History of the World by E.H. Gombrich (ages: 8-adult). This book is my new obsession. My friends are so incredibly sick of hearing about it. But let me just show you the first paragraph, and you tell me: โAll stories begin with โOnce Upon a Time.โ And thatโs just what this story is all about: What happened once upon a time. Once you were so small that, even standing on tiptoes, you could barely reach your motherโs hand. Do you remember? Your own history might begin like this: โOnce upon a time, there was a small boyโ โ or a small girl โ โand that small boy was me.โ But before that you were a baby in a cradle. You wonโt remember that, but you know itโs true. Your father and mother were also small once, and so was your grandfather, and your grandmother, a much longer time ago, but you know that too. After all, we say: โthey are old.โ But they too had grandfathers and grandmothers and they too could say, โOnce upon a time.โ And so it goes on, further and further back. Behind every โOnce upon a timeโ there is always another. Have you ever tried standing between two mirrors? You should. You will see a great long line of shiny mirrors, each one smaller than the one before, stretching away into the distance, getting fainter and fainter, so that you never see the last. But even when you canโt see them anymore, the mirrors still go on. They are there, and you know it.โ OH MAN, I AM DYING. IT IS TOO GOOD.โ Andy
6. Potato Pancakes on the first night of Hannukah. Withย Marthaโs edible dreidls for dessert, bien sur. โ Jenny
7. Ruhlmanโs Twenty, ($23) byย Michael Ruhlman. Every time Iโm in a bookstore I am drawn to this one. The title refers to twenty culinary techniques which, if learned, will turn you in to a real cook โ the kind who understands why things happen the way they do and not the kind who follows recipes to the letter without thinking. Which explains his first technique: โThink.โ โJenny
8. Black Maple Hill Bourbon ($33). Jenny bought a bottle of this for me a couple birthdays ago and it one of those things that disabuses you of the idea that all [insert product here] are basically the same. Oh, the $12 stuff is just as good. No one can tell the difference between x and y. Itโs all marketing. That stuffโs a ripoff. Iโve said it, too. And I was wrong. Use sparingly, but use well. Also: what a label.ย โ Andy
9 & 10. Trader Joeโs Gift Tags As if we needed another reason to love TJoes? Templates for these gift tags (and also a garland which was a little too ambitious for us) are sketched right on their paper grocery bags. Remind me why all stores arenโt doing this? PS: While youโre at TJoes, pick up the (#10)ย Gingerbread House Kit for a holiday activity with the kids that doesnโt require a degree in Baking from ICE. And itโs from Germany, so it feels legit. โ Jenny
11. Concert T-Shirts ($20-$25) Jenny calls my new concert t-shirt obsession my โmid-life crisis.โ To which I say: better than a new girlfriend or a Porsche. Itโs true, though. I have been wearing these out lately, and I have no excuse. It just feels good to put one on; it feels less good, after putting one on, to walk by the full-length mirror in your bedroom and catch a glimpse of yourself and think, Man, whoโs the dorky old guy trying to be a kid again? (From left, Neil Young, Nick Lowe, and The Drive-By Truckers.) โ Andy
12. Beans from Joe the Art of Coffee ($11.95). There are way more days than I care to admit when my medium-sized cup of this stuff, purchased from Joeโs coffee cart in Grand Central Terminal, is the highlight of my work day. Seriously. โ Andy
13. The Christmas Cookie Ritual Simple, buttery cookies, made with grandma, and slathered in sugar and sprinkles. Whatโs not to love? I could never quite figure out, though, why the cookies themselves, as tasty as they are, are only half as tasty as the raw dough. That never seemed quite fair. The familyย recipe is here. โ Andy
14. Magnetic earrings. A pair of these should put off the ear pierce begging for at least a month or two. If you canโt find them at your local junky accessory store at the mall (which is where I found these), you can find some version of them at Claireโs, where they sell for $8 a pair. (Buy 2 get 1 free.)ย -Jenny
15. Marta Barware from CB2, ($1.50-$2.50 per glass) Every time I order these I think the same thing: Did they get the price wrong? Itโs crazy how inexpensive these glasses are given how pretty our chocolate milks andย cocktails look inside them. If youโre having a holiday party and not serving a special cocktail because you donโt want to cough up the dough for the extra (or proper) glassware โ hereโs your answer.ย โ Jenny
16.ย Make Dinner Not War bumper stickers ($4 for 1; $10 for 4 โ includes shipping) If you need me to give you a reason, please see previous 389 posts. โ Jenny
17. Bon Appetit Subscription ($20 for first gift subscription, second is FREE) Have you noticed how much a part of the conversation this magazine has become? I like to think this is because Andy and I show up six times a year writing our โProvidersโ column, but I think it might also have something to do with Marcus Nilsson-shot stories like these. โJenny
18.ย In2green Organic Cotton Blanket ($150)ย GIVEAWAY!!
Their classic cable knitย baby blanket has long been my go-to newborn gift, so you can imagine how delighted I was when they started making full-size, bonafide cotton throws for grown-ups. Hereโs the best part: Theyโve been nice enough to offer a free blanket to one lucky DALS reader.ย Rules:ย Comment below with the best gift youโve ever given or received. (As always, you must be a newsletter subscriber to be eligible, soย do that first if youโre not already signed up.) Winner will be chosen at random this Friday.ย โ Jenny
19. Pixar Short Films Collection. ($15) The downside of taking this DVD with us on road trips is that Jenny and I have to sit up front while the kids get to sit in the back, watching. We all have our personal favorites โ Phoebe (โOne Man Bandโ), Abby (โLiftedโ), Jenny (โBoundin'โ), and me (โBirds On a Wireโ) โ but really, theyโre all genius. Thereโs something nice about how short they are (a few minutes each); theyโre like little treats that we can dole out accordingly โ and use as bribes if necessary โ with minimal parental guilt. Why is it that letting the kids watch stuff from Pixar feels somehow healthy? โ Andy
20. MOMA Spherical Ice Tray Set ($13) Iโve never been to Japan, but I hear this is how they roll, ice cube-wise. If so, I like their style. Drop one of these bad boys in your Black Maple Hill bourbon โ or, really, the kidsโ pineapple juice โ and now weโre talking. One of those little silly things that makes life more fun.ย โ Andy
21. Billy Kirk Black Laptop Bag ($290) If youโre going to splurge on one thing this holiday, make it this. Andy bought it for me last year in khaki and tan and not a day goes by when I donโt get a compliment on it. -Jenny
22. Flying Pig Farms Gift Certificate Itโs been well-documented by now: we like pork. And weโve yet to find pork that tastes better than the stuff they sell at Flying Pig Farms, which we only discovered after friends sent us a gift certificate a few years ago. We ordered a roast and some chops and some bacon, and none of it was bad. Now itโs a go-to present for friends who know from pigs. It also takes our ragu to another level. โ Andy
23. Sambas for Kids ($30-$50)ย How good? These are Abbyโs and are only a few weeks old โ that should tell you how well-loved they are in our house. โJenny
Update: The winner of the in2green blanket is Katherine (#115). Thanks for playing everyone!
Potato latkes photo by Andrew McCaul; Pork shredding photo by Jennifer Causey
The best gift I ever received? A dollhouse my grandfather made for my mother. It had been entirely remodeled and updated by my father and siblings and was a complete surprise when I came down the stairs and saw it under the tree on Christmas morning. I played with it for years and treasure every memory of it.
GI Joe Sea Wolf Submarine circa 1975
So hard to name just one best gift ever, but the sheepskin wooly slippers my Aunt Alice made and sent to me about 3 weeks after I traced my feet on scrap paper and mailed them to her, embroidered in tiny blue seed beads with one initial on each slipper, were pretty fantastic. Also fantastic: she commented that my feet were exact replicas of my dadโs (who died years ago) โ and she was right.
The best gift I was ever given- I look just like my mom! Trust me, that is a great gift!
Best gift Iโve ever received, besides my actual children, was the pair of boots my husband brought to the hospital after my first was born, โto help you get back on your feet.โ I still canโt believe he came up with that on his own!
Last Christmas was our first Christmas together and we were recently engaged. My then-fiance didnโt have a lot of money and he is a hard core rock and roll fan (Beatles, Rolling Stones, CCR to name a few). I knew little about his other love, so he hand crafted a โRock and Roll Trivia Kitโ replete with useful information written in question and answer format on 100 index cards. Some cards even had photos of musicians I was supposed to identify. A year later, he still questions me: โName all four members of Led Zepplin!โ And the best gift to him is that now I know the answers!
last christmas I had all of my (30+ year old) siblings write down their favorite memories of my parents and of growing up. I printed them off on little cards. we snuck out in the middle of the night on christmas and hung them (all 150!) on the tree. my parents couldnโt have been more surprised when they woke up. we spent two hours christmas morning crying and laughing and smiling- before weโd even opened a single โgiftโ. best christmas present ever.
best gift: my husband (married dec 29, 2007). okay, and my 14 cup cuisinart food processor.
One of the best gifts I received in recent memory was from my parents: A check plus babysitting time so I could go to the outlet mall with my sister (she got the same gift) AND NO KIDS.
Every year I tell my mom that she is the best gift. I know it sounds cheesy, but it started a long time ago. Weโve been through a lot as a family, and my mom always made every effort to hold us all together. There was a time where she couldnโt really give us big gifts; I know she felt bad about it, and thatโs when we started to verbalize that having each other as a family is the best gift!
For our first wedding anniversary, my husband bought me a print of a photograph I fell in love with two years ago and almost forgot about. The best gifts are the ones that show the other person knows you better than you know yourself. Happy holidays!
One of the best gifts I received was when my oldest sister started working and splashed out on really awesome gifts for me and my other sister.
The best gift I ever received was a spontaneous trip on the coast to a B&B with my husband. I am not so spontaneous, and fought the idea (What? Right NOW? Are you nuts? Do you have any idea how expensive it will be?) But the overnight was worth it, wandering the beach, in the evening, and so close to the ocean we had to shut the door because the waves were loud enough to keep us awake. What a great trip that was!
best gift i ever gave:
my parents were moving and i discovered a box of old books that had belogned to my grandmother and aunts. My aunt Mary passed away about 12 years ago so i wrapped up the books that had belonged to her and gifted them to my cousin Janel. she was brought to tears and so was i.
Great lineup! The Phil Specter Christmas album is my favorite, too! My dad (whoโs not exactly Mr. Christmasโbut who IS Mr. Wall-of-Sound) would play it every year on continuous repeat while we decorated the Christmas tree with โItโs a Wonderful Lifeโ on mute in the background (my dad swore the only part of the movie that mattered was the last 30 minutes.)
Also, I have a โfrequent buyerโ card at Joeโs!
Thanks for the giveaway!
the best gift i ever got was a designer handbag that i bought for myself. it was so great to buy something to celebrate the fact that i was finally making enough to treat myself without sacrificing rent, food, etc. the best gift i ever gave was a trip to las vegas to my mom so that she could see one of her favorite artists (mexican singer luis miguel) in concert.
Best gift Iโve ever given was a trip to Sundance Film Festival for my husband โ a writer, and aspiring Hollywood insider. He loved every moment of the trip.
A ticket to Argentina, that introduction to travel changed my life forever.
Ugh I would LOVE an In2green Organic Cotton Blanket. The best gift I ever gave was actually a similar cableknit blanket that I handknit for my best friend for almost a year to give as her wedding present. I have never made another because they take so long, but she was so happy it was definitely worth it.
My husband gave me a memory card type game to play with the kidsโฆthat he made himselfโฆwith photos of our family making up the pictures to match.
Thank you for all the ideas! Do you by any chance have a recommendation for an everyday/frying pan? I want to get one for myself for Christmas and having a hard time picking one. ๐ Thank you in advance!
A few years ago, my husband and I decided to stop giving each other โbig giftsโ to save some money. We found we were just as happy filling one anotherโs stockings with the obligatory family traditions (fruit, nuts, toiletries, and candy), so we stuck with it! The best gift is to spend time with one another without stressing about expensive gifts.
best gift receivedโฆ getting a bass guitar and learning to play at age 44! rock on freaky bro!
Best recent gift that I received was a miniature dobos torte made for me by my niece for my birthday. I am Hungarian but havenโt been back to Budapest to see family in 25 years. My niece loves to travel and cook. The time and effort she put into making this seven layer cake was evident. It was delicious and so incredibly thoughtful.
Last year my mom gave us 10 โNightโs outโ where she will come up and watch the kids. She lives about 2 hours away so babysitting events have to be planned. We have used those nights for everything from an opportunity to go to Target sans Kids, to dinner and a movie night outs with friends. This month we actually get a night in- mostlikely to do some kid-free wrapping and she is going to take the shopping.
I really hope it is a girt that is repeated this year!