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Controlling the Controllable

By November 30, 2011October 2nd, 2013217 Comments

Do you know this phrase? Controlling the Controllable. Or should I say, have you heard of this condition? Symptoms include:

-Adding tasks to your to-do list even after youโ€™ve completed them, just so you can experience the satisfaction of crossing that task off the list.

-Having a sudden irrepressible urge to rearrange your sock drawer or color-code your bookshelf or clean the living room blinds with a toothbrush after reading a terrible story in the newspaper.

-Recording what will be for dinner or what has been for dinner every night for going onย fourteen straight years, even when those dinners consist of a pasta-potato-buttered-biscuit starchfest (picky toddlers) or a microwaved Boca Burger, which was as imaginative as it was going to get after a long day at the office ย (picky bosses).

-Organizing your grocery list by supermarket aisle.

-Mentally spreadsheeting the time your children spend with you versus the time they spend in childcare or with a babysitter or nanny. (And hoping you will come out ahead.)

-Having the fleeting thought If I could make all corners of my life look and feel as orderly as this compartmentalized lunchbox byย PlanetBox, then I can accomplish anything.

A little more about this PlanetBox, which is the first in a series of DALS holiday giveaways. The above photo is the lunch my daughter took with her to school this morning, and when I packed it last night after dinner (it was my turn) I employed the same lunch-packing formula I always employ when itโ€™s the end of the day and thereโ€™s been some Pinot Noir and not one more brain cell is available for functioning. It goes like this:

Something Crunchy (crackers) + Something Fresh (edamame, clementines)ย + Something Leftover From Dinner (crazy delicious Trader Joeโ€™s buttermilk biscuit โ€” stuffed with ham and cheese)ย + Something Sweet (iced gingerbread cookie) = Lunch!

And yes, in case you are wondering. Employing formulas to complete basic everyday household tasks? Another grave symptom of The Condition.

Your kid can customize the PlanetBox with his or her choice of magnet decals. This one is โ€œModern Artโ€ฆ.โ€

โ€ฆAnd this one is โ€œUnder the Sea,โ€ but they have over a dozen more to choose from. PlanetBoxes are made from non-toxic stainless steel and come with a carrying case (with thermos pocket) and two smaller steel containers. FREE PlanetBox goes to a DALS commenter chosen at random, with special consideration going to those who have inspired lunch ideas. Winner announced on Monday.

Update: The winner of the PlanetBox goes to Ingrid. Thanks to everyone for playing and especially for the fantastic ideas.

PS: The next giveaway will be announced very soon and will be for newsletter subscribers only.

217 Comments

  • Avatar liz fisher says:

    โ€œOrganizing your grocery list by supermarket aisle.โ€ I laughed out loud about this because my grocery list is planned this way and I didnโ€™t even realize it was anal until I emailed the list I created to friends and they didnโ€™t use itโ€ฆand made fun of me for having one!

    The best thing I ever did for lunches was to buy a Cut-N-Seal tool to make PB & J sandwiches look like the popular version found in the grocery store freezer aisle. My 7 y/o refused sandwiches until I did this and now he eats one almost every day! I also think around a system for lunch: protein/veggie/fruit/treat/crunchy thing

  • Avatar JC says:

    Such great comments. Must now recalculate and adapt to these fantastic formulas. Thus far, mine has been:
    protein + fruit + crunchy + napkin

    For my daughter, it ends up as a snack bar of sorts.
    My son, on the other hand, is most likely to eat his lunch if thereโ€™s a huge bowl of plain pasta and some small-ish, bite-size fruit. Which explains the ravenous qualities of the boy I pick up from child care each day.

  • Avatar EC says:

    Following the Japanese theory of packing bento boxes, I try to keep my kidsโ€™ lunches colorful, aiming for 4-5 colors per lunch to maximize nutrition and visual appeal. For example: baby carrots (orange); grapes (green and purple); leftover sweet potato (yellow); ham (pink) and leftover pasta (white).

  • Hannah says:

    We donโ€™t start the lunch routine until next year but I was thinking today that our lunch would have been perfect. Kid #1 has a cheese and apple sandwich with clementine and some steamed veggies (leftovers) and Kid #2 would have all the same things but with the sandwich dissected. It rarely works this well. We are more of a leftovers kind of family. But this box looks like it would work great for that!

  • Avatar Sarah says:

    Oh my gosh itโ€™s great to know thereโ€™s more than one of us out thereโ€ฆadding things Iโ€™ve already done to my to-do lists and organizing the grocery list by aisle is me to a t!

    My formula is usually a soup or salad + a main course (a sandwich or leftovers) plus a salty snack. In fact most of my lunches fall under your formula if you switch out sweet for salty. My favorite place for inspired lunch ideas has always been this blog: http://www.vegetarianlunchbox.blogspot.com/ She hasnโ€™t updated in quite awhile but thereโ€™s still a mega stockpile of great old posts:-)

    That lunch box looks amazing!!

  • Kdblya says:

    If I include something sweet with my sonโ€™s lunch, thatโ€™s the only thing he eats. So I pack lunch and include a joke on a slip of paper as a treat.

  • Elizabeth says:

    I have a very picky eater. He does not eat sandwiches, period. He will not eat food items that touch each other. He has issues with leftovers โ€” usually, theyโ€™re not hot enough, despite very expensive lunch box inserts and therma-lunch boxes. As a result, weโ€™ve come up with the โ€œsnackโ€ lunch which usually includes crackers, fruit slices, carrots / edamame, yogurt etc. Thatโ€™s why the Planet Box would be perfect for us โ€” a compartment for each item. Brilliant.

  • Avatar nicole says:

    I always try to make my kids lunches balanced. Thatโ€™s my biggest concern. Most days its a square of cheese cut into a fun shape (dairy), a fresh fruit of some sort, great sandwich- wheat bread (grains), ham, turkey or roast beef (meat) and veggies with humus (cherry tomatoes, carrot sticks, green pepper slices, or broccoli). They love it and its all healthy so I do too. If we had this lunch box it would make things so organized (and its nice onthe eyes too ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Avatar Anne E. M. says:

    English muffin pizzas, dal with veggie sticks and pita wedges and leftovers + minced vegetables bundled in ricepaper springroll wrappers are all lunchtime hits at our house.

  • Avatar Steph says:

    My daughter has one of these and we love it. Worth every penny. Iโ€™ve been putting off buying another for my son, so I would love to win one!

    My daughterโ€™s favorite lunch items are turkey and cream cheese rolls, leftover steak, and leftover refried beans or straight tuna fish (both of which I put in the big dipper). She also loves fresh fruits and will eat carrots and celery if I put hummus or ranch in the little dipper.

  • Avatar Ingrid F. says:

    I pack my kids lunch bento-style. By using a smaller box, Iโ€™m less intimidated @ 6 am! Iโ€™m still mystified by what comes home-there seems to be no rhyme or reason to what he eats on a daily basis at lunch.

  • Avatar Andrea says:

    Lunchโ€ฆ must be kosher styleโ€ฆ must look like snacksโ€ฆ I am thankful for Trader Joes ever day! applesauce squirters, yogurt (drinks or tubes), cheese sticks, hummus & pretzels, fruit snacks and (maybe) carrotsโ€ฆ not really a meal but good enough for pre-school!!! And I LOVE the BOX!

  • Avatar Mom of Boys says:

    Okay, here is my favorite: plain yogurt (european style) in one container and cut up mango and kiwi in another for dipping in the yogurt. He loves it and eats it! Protein, probiotics, and fruit!

  • Avatar Stephanie says:

    My 3rd grader is a โ€œrestrictive eaterโ€โ€“lots of foods on the No-list. I am confident he will outgrow it as one of his brothers was the same and is now a fabulous eater. There is always hope people! I do pack mac and cheese in a thermos and lots of crunch + fruit. The small dessert is his favorite hands down(no matter what it is).
    I totally organize my list around the grocery store set-up. We have a new store and it has messed up my list mo-jo! Oh well, another excuse to impose order on something.

  • Avatar Susi Diallo says:

    I use a similar lunch box. The one featured is VERY nice. My son doesnโ€™t like sandwichesโ€ฆfor inspired I wrap turkey on picks and stick a cherry tomato on the end.

  • Avatar Laura says:

    I am definitely one of those โ€œadd it to the to-do list so I can totally check that off!โ€ kind of gals.

    We employ the โ€œRainbow Strategyโ€ at our house. We try and incorporate each color of the rainbow in the lunch box. Red and Orange (apple and orange slices), Yellow and Green (Mustard and lettuce on the olโ€™ turkey sandwich), and Blue and Purple (blueberry mini-sconeโ€ฆwell, itโ€™s sort of blue and purple, right?) Itโ€™s fun to find ways to make the rainbow with what we have in the fridge and has introduced our family to loads of new foods!

  • Avatar Petra says:

    My son wants to eat a PB&J sandwich every day. I try to vary the โ€œmain courseโ€ of his lunch some, but most of the time his request wins. So I at least try and make the sandwich with different types of bread. I only use whole wheat, and get regular sandwich bread, thin buns, bagel thins and tortillas. This way it doesnโ€™t seem like heโ€™s eating the same thing every day, even tho I pack different sides if possible.

  • Avatar Rachel says:

    Today is my daughterโ€™s first day of preschool! School lunch packing here I come!!! LOVE Planet Boxes but donโ€™t have one to call our own yetโ€ฆ.

  • Catherine says:

    I have loved this lunchbox for a long time. Lunches largely consist of a fruit, sandwich and snack item (pretzels) but the favorite is a combo of dried cherries and cashews in an old Grey Poupon jar.

  • Avatar My2girls says:

    I have been trying to adopt the zero waste lifestyle and have been eyeing these lunch boxes but have held off due to the fact that I am trying to purge the house of stuff not bring more stuff in. But I want to discontinue the use of all the little plastic containers that currently go into my daughterโ€™s lunchbox and I think this would be a great way to do just that. Fingers crossed!

  • Avatar Chandra says:

    Even if I donโ€™t winโ€ฆI think Iโ€™ll have to purchase these lunchboxes. Weโ€™re starting the hunt for a preschool and Iโ€™ll have to begin packaging my sonโ€™s lunch very soon!

  • Avatar Erin says:

    I usually make lunch with colors in mind. If red bell peppers are the veggie for the day, then kiwi is the fruit. I find an assortment of colors makes things fun to look at and eat. Even when your selections are limited to the tastebuds of a 5 year old. And always, a couple Trader Joes Powerberries for a treat.

  • Avatar erika says:

    I am going to start creating a lunch plan now that will last the entire 13 years of school lunches that I have ahead of me when my child turns five. Thatโ€™s about 2500 lunches. I figure that if I start now (heโ€™s 3) I could accomplish thisโ€ฆ along with the corresponding shopping lists. ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Avatar charsiubau says:

    my kids love Japanese bento-style lunches with rice/ onigiri, some meat and veggies and fruit. Normally I do not put in sweet treats.

  • Avatar Sonja says:

    great lunchbox! iโ€™ld love to win this for my husbandโ€™s lunch.
    hmmโ€ฆ my tip is to pre-prepare most or all of the snacks he will take in his lunch that week and dump them into a giant bowl on the counter (baggies of chips/crackers, mini tupperwares of nuts, etc) and fridge (containers of washed grapes, cheese chunks, other fruit) so that in the morning it is grab and go.

    my other time-saving tip is that when i come home from the grocery store i peanut butter and jam a whole loaf (or 2) of sliced bread, slide it back in the bag and store in the freezer! just grab a sandwich and go!

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