Who: Frank T.
Age: 44
Lives in: New York, NY
Kids: Daughter Julia, Age 7
Marital Status: Divorced
Custody Situation: Joint; Weekends + 1 Weeknight
Dinner Dilemma:ย In Frankโs words: โMy daughter is finally starting to expand her repertoire โ itโs not only Mac โn Cheese and nuggets anymore. On the nights sheโs with me, I want to stop relying on takeout and learn how to make a few really basic healthy dinners for her.โ
Also:ย โI wouldnโt mind eating healthier myself.โ
Dinner Dilemma #2: โIโm basically cooking in a bachelorโs kitchen. When it comes to equipment, I have nothing. Like nothing. I need to know where to begin.โ
Revealing Detail #1:ย โI live in a small apartment and I hate waste or having anything extra lying around. I want bare minimum when it comes to both cookware and food.โ
The DALS Prescription: Donโt be overly ambitious. Itโs like deciding to get in shape โ if you decide to run six miles seven nights a week, youโll burn out after two weeks. Pick five easy recipes that you know Julia will like, buy only the equipment that those dishes require, and report back in a month.
Five Starter Recipes (+ Equipment Youโll Need to Make Them)
1.ย Roast Chicken with Vegetables
Nothing could be easier, or more delicious, as long as you remember to remove the giblets from the cavity before roasting. This takes about an hour and 15 minutes, so probably better for a weekend dinner. Equipment: Pyrex Roasting Pan,ย Oxo Silicone brushย (to brush melted butter on chicken), Peeler for Carrots, Pure Komachi Knives (Set of Six)ย for Chopping Vegetables.
2. Grilled Fish with Steamed Vegetables and Rice
I know you love a simple fresh grilled fish โ even in the winter โ so hereโs one recipe that fits all: Take 1/2-3/4 pound of your favorite grilling fish (halibut, tuna, salmon, mahi mahi, please checkย Seafood Watchย for responsible buying guidelines), cut in two pieces and marinate flesh-side down in 3 tablespoons olive oil, about a tablespoon soy sauce, salt and pepper. About five minutes before you cook fish, squeeze some fresh lime on its flesh. Heat grill pan to medium-high, and using your silicone brush, coat with a little olive oil. Grill fish about 3 minutes a side (no poking and prodding while it sears) until it feels firm to the touch (but not rock hard). ย Equipment:ย 9 1/2 inchย Pyrex Dishย for marinating;ย Lodge Pre-Seasoned Cast Iron Grill Pan;ย Calphalon Slotted Spatula;ย Chefโn Veggie Steamย Siliconeย Steamerย for vegetables; Cuisinartย 3-quartย potย for rice. (You already have knives for chopping)
3.ย Angel Hair with Shrimpย and Steamed Vegetables
This is perfect for a weeknight with Julia โ it comes together superfast. Just be sure to pick up the shrimp the night before she comes over if you donโt have time the night you plan to cook it . You donโt want seafood to sit around for more than a day.ย Equipment: ย Cuisinart 12-inch Skillet for shrimp and onions; ExcelSteelย 3.5 quart colander;ย Cuisinartย 1 1/2-quartย potย for steaming. (You already have knives for chopping and 3-quart pot for boiling pasta.)
4. Breaded Chicken Cutletsย (page 11 Dinner: A Love Story) with Roast Potatoes
The classic. The important part to remember here is to make sure you pound your chicken breasts (between saran wrap or wax paper) to even thickness.ย Equipment: Other than the skillet, steamer, Pyrex 9-incher (for potatoes), chefโs knife, and saucepan mentioned above, youโll need a meatย pounderย and threeย dinner plates for your egg-flour-bread-crumb dredging, and saran wrap or wax paper.
5.ย Fish โPresentsโ
This is so up your alley. Everything โ protein, starch, veggie โ is cooked at the same time in the same way. (And if you call them โpresentsโ Julia will love them, too.) The trick is to make sure all your vegetables are sliced very thin, especially the potatoes, so everything cooks through. Equipment: You have all the cookware you need for it, but make sure you have some foil or parchment paper lying around for the giftwrap. (I know you hate creamy sauces, but Julia might like to dip her fish in a mixture of yogurt-mustard-and-dill โ seeย the bottom of this recipeย for instructions.)
The Result: Keep us posted Frank!
Pure Komachi Knives. Their Six-Pack is one of the best deals out there. (Not to mention, the coolest looking.)
This is the best post you have ever done! After my parentโs divorce I remember eating meals with my bachelor dad that were seriously horrific: we used what we could find at the convenience store around the corner. Sad, sad.
Youโre a genius for addressing this truly dire scenario.
Such practical advice! I read DALS cover to cover nearly a year ago and I finally got myself a little book to keep in the kitchen. Iโve been planning out dinners by the week for years, but Iโve always done so on scraps of paper that turn into piles that I donโt know what to do with. A tidy little book makes me feel that much more organized. Itโs these sort of organizing tips that are very helpful for creating new habits. Thanks for sharing!
I love how this entire post gives Frank all of the information he needs to cook more meals for his daughter. Iโm sure Julia will appreciate this too!
Great post! Such easy and practical ideas. Super kid-friendly ๐
great ideas, especially the breaded chicken cutlets. any kid will eat those, its like healthier chicken nuggets:)
http://semiweeklyeats.blogspot.com/2013/12/the-first-snow_2.html
I love this โ I feel like I should print it out for my husband for nights when Iโm not home!
Love Leslieโs idea!!!! If I go out my husband is completely lost in the kitchen.
If Frank only has 2 dinner plates, a dredging station can be set up using plastic Chinese take out containers
I love this post so much. My parents divorced when I was three years old. My dad was the master of baked potato dinners and my mom would spend an entire Sunday making a weekโs worth of frozen dinners for me to chose from for those nights she worked late. What do I remember the most from those days? My dad accidentally letting a potato explode in the oven. Sounds like Frank is doing great.
How did turkey burgers with spicy oven fries not make this list? I could eat those fries every night!!!
Truly, this is the most loving, kind, intelligent post Iโve ever read. Presented with a clear, honest description and request, youโve provided a well-organized, detailed plan that presumes competent follow-through. Good equipment and clear instructions ensure success. Many thanks.
Breaded chicken is one of my dadโs best recipes, and FYI, you donโt need a meat pounder to get the pieces to even thickness โ just use a flat bottomed drinking glass (over the wax paper or plastic wrap)
Love those colorful knives!!! Thanks for sharing!!
xoxo PARIS BEE kids blog
Great postโyou definitely donโt need a lot of tools to make great meals!
I love this! I need to bookmark this page for my boyfriend when I am not home!
-Katharine
Livingโs as Easy as 312
Best post ever! Iโm a minimalist and keep having fantasies about throwing out all my kitchen stuff and starting over with only the minimum for a half dozen recipes.
use sandwich bags or freezer bags for pounding the chicken and iโve used a piece of 2ร4 or the side of a hammer in a pinch and a rolling pin. I didnโt have a meat pounder until two yrs ago. My former psycho daughter-in-law bought it for me and now everytime I use it I think of her. Itโs one of my fav kitchen gadgets.
I usually am 100% with you on every post โ but as the mom of a 7 year old, I have to say โ the only recipe on your list my daughter MIGHT be willing to eat is the roast chicken. I wish Frank all the best in learning to cook & exploring food with his hopefully less picky kid. but โ I whole heartedly agree than no matter what is on the plate, it is the act of coming together as a family to eat that is the key.
I love this post!! So particular to Frankโs dilemma, but still helpful to me!
Great selection of recipes and list of tools, though I disagree with a couple of things.
If Frank is only going to be cooking for himself and his daughter, I think a 12โณ skillet is unnecessary. I cook for one or two and never need a 12โณ skillet.
Also, he probably only needs a chefโs knife and a paring knife. Those, along with a bread knife, are the ones I use day in and day out and donโt need more.
Great post! Also I found Costco in Va is carrying this set of knives for$29.97! A great deal!
I think this is great! How did Frank do?